Become a Player: Living a Life of Abundance
Do you want to become a player? Do you want to have a choice when it comes to women in your life?
The word player has sort of a bad connotation, when people think of a player they tend to think of somebody who abuses women, who treats them like shit, and despite that, still has women begging for his attention.
It doesn’t have to be this way however. The way I view a player is somebody that has an abundance of women, a choice of who he wants to spend his time with – not necessarily somebody that degrades women. I love women, and just for clarification, you don’t have to have the asshole mentality to attract women.
For those of you that are wondering whether girls will frown upon this, it’s usually not the case. If they do enquire as to the women in your life, you should let them know you have a few options; however, do not make a big deal about it – if you don’t, they won’t.
A Players Mindset
- Non needy
- Everything is fun
- You’re an interesting person that gives value to the situation
- It does not matter if one woman blows you off – there are tons around
- You lead the interaction, not the other way around
Providing Good Emotions
Why do certain girls hang out with player type guys? Is it because they are a completely different breed of human? Do they have some unimaginable skill set that you could never replicate? No, they are fun to be around and are a source of good emotions.
If you want women to be attracted to you, you must provide a series of emotions in them. For example, being playful one minute and then turning your back on them the next. Get her laughing and having a great time and then tell her you can’t talk to her anymore. Classic push pull stuff. This keeps them on their toes and stops them from labeling you that “predictable guy” who is completely one dimensional.
Leading the interaction
Do you ask the girl if she would like to go to the bar and get a drink with you or do you grab her hand and tell her “let’s go get me a drink”. Do you lead or do you look for her to make the decisions.
In order for a woman to be comfortable around you she must know you have the ability to be a leader. That means making decisions. Whether it be to go grab a coffee, or to go to a new venue – if you provide a strong leading frame and do it with 100% confidence she will follow.
Lead the interaction in the direction you want it to go, don’t just sit back and hope it gets there.
Are you at a place where you can successfully pick up, attract and seduce any woman you want?
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